The feeling I get when I'm giving a spanking.

A lot of things go through my head during spankings. First of all in our lives there are a few different types of 'spankings'.

There is the quick slap on the ass. This is done with a few things in mind. In one fashion it's a loving "I want you" type of slap. Then there is the "get your self in line" swat.

There is a maintenance spanking that is a mutually agreed upon spanking that is enjoyed by all. This one is usually capped of with very sensual sex.

There is an agressive over the knee spanking. This spanking is my favorite. Seeing her bend over, with part of her juicy pussy lips showing drives me crazy! Just thinking of it makes me want to go grab her right now. The sex after this type of spanking is carnal.

Then there is the punishment spanking. This one is for teaching her a lesson. Sometimes there are tears, sometimes we do not cuddle or have sex after. If a lesson is learned then it worked.

I remember when we first started talkig about and acting on spankings. I was shocked that she wanted it, she was shocked that I was ok with it. Her ass is the greatest ever. And any chance for me to put my hands on it makes me happy. When i spank her I feel so many things. The power that I hold over her makes me feel amazing. The sexual flood of feelings is overwhelming. Sometimes a well timed swat will make both of us scream with pleasure.

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Not something you do, something you practice

Once I got over my pride issues I saw that there was a lot to learn. Now that I know that she needs structure and guidance  I'm trying to make sure I'm the best HOH for her.

The practice of BDSM for us may be different than others (I'm very open to suggestion). We are currently working on lists of thigs that we expect from each other. My list consists of rules followed by the punishment. I may share parts of her list to me later. As I said before this isn't something you can jump into without fully understanding. I did it once and I learned my lesson. We will have clearly defined rules, and enjoy it more because we both know when, where and why things are happening.